Before negotiation begins, understand not only what property exists, but how assets were acquired, which debts remain, who holds title and what the family needs most.
Build the complete picture
Real estate and bank accounts may be only part of the structure. Business interests, retirement assets, insurance products and liabilities can also be material.
Separate the urgent from the important
Housing, access to funds and temporary parenting arrangements may need immediate attention. Long-term strategy should address those needs without sacrificing the future position.
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